Bhutan has had its own version of the boy-meets-girl story for a long time. In parts of the country, a custom called “Bomena” or “night hunting” prevails. From barely-adult boys to nearly old men, all can, and do, partake in it. In theory, the custom dictates that after nightfall men can climb over the walls and windows of a house, and land in a woman’s bedroom. Sometimes it leads to courtship, multiple scaling of the walls, and even marriage. Sometimes it leads to a one-nig