I’m lying face-up on a massage bed for a facial at the famous Shangpree Spa in Gangnam, the ultra-cool district in Seoul, South Korea. There is no relaxing spa-music. The lights are not dim. Sitting behind the bed is a woman who is examining my face through a giant magnifying glass. She rings a bell. Two women follow. The lights are even brighter now and a debate underway. They come in closer to examine my face. There is no hiding. “Do you massage your face,” asks a woman with glowi